April 2
Print versions available April 2nd
Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism
I am pleased to announce the release of the third volume in The Understanding Autism Series: Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism.
Relationships are rarely difficult because people do not care. More often, they become strained because communication is misunderstood — tone is misread, intentions are misinterpreted, or expectations remain unspoken.
In this volume, I explore how communication actually works in everyday relationships and why it can feel especially complex for autistic adolescents and adults. Drawing from more than 30 years of clinical experience in neuropsychology and nearly 1,000 autism evaluations, this book translates research and diagnostic criteria into practical, real-life application.
Topics include:
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The distinction between task-focused and relationship-focused interaction
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Navigating compliments, gratitude, and reciprocity
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Understanding how shame and misinterpretation affect connection
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Practical strategies for conflict repair and relational resilience
This book is written for autistic adults, partners, parents, and professionals who want greater clarity — not scripts or masking, but understanding. When insight increases, relationships become less fragile and more grounded in mutual respect.
Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism builds on the foundation of the first two volumes and continues the goal of the series: to increase understanding across the lifespan.
I am deeply grateful to the individuals and families whose experiences have shaped this work, and I hope this book offers meaningful support to those navigating communication and connection in their own lives.
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"Dr. Regan, I was delighted to hear your podcast! In fact, I've listened to it three times already! You have provided a great service to our community... and I am looking forward to reading your Understanding Autism series. Thank you Dr. Regan for sharing your much needed expertise in this challenging (and in my opinion underestimated) area of our practice." S. PsyD, ABPdN
"Best of 2021"
Honored to be named in The Testing Psychologist's "Best of 2021" episode for my interview about assessment of autism in adults.
The podcast is published by the prolific psychologist Dr. Jeremy Sharp. In addition to clinical expertise and podcast content, he publishes a blog and offers consultation to clinicians growing a testing practice.
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